(some people wanted this rebloggable)
Do you have any advice for women out there today?
Once Upon A Time → places
“I hate Wonderland.”
Rebloggable by request.
Links found in the original post:
- “Here is a good post by a bisexual person on pansexual people misdefining bisexuality.”
- “Here is a good post by a pansexual on problematic definitions of pansexuality.”
- “This and this are prime examples [of pansexual people claiming themselves as the breakers of the gender binary].”
- “See my previous posts on nonbinary people in nonmonosexual communities here, here, and here.”
THIS IS AMAZING. YES. THIS.
wow this expresses so many things that I could never quite process
What about pansexual people who don’t hate on bi people or mis-define bisexuality? What about pan people who aren’t ignorant towards trans* identities? What about pansexual people who have trans* identities? Why does every other post I see on pansexuality have these broad generalizations about what pansexual people say and think?
Congratulations on the most roundabout version of “we’re not all like that” I’ve ever seen.
Nowhere did I say “all pan people.” I used cis and binary identity qualifiers where relevant. And by the way, binary trans*people perpetuate a lot of binarism and nonbinary erasure.
So what about all those pan people who “aren’t like that” that I didn’t talk about? What do you want, a pat on the back? A fruit basket with a card saying “congratulations on not personally being one of the people who misrepresent, appropriate, and generally shit on my identity”? I don’t owe you a fucking mention, not one.
If my mom knew I had 57 tumblr followers she would stop telling me what to do.
I would hope for that too, but I’m not that optimistic…I’m sure they feel some sense of entitlement to their behavior…ah, conditioning.
Ugh…it’s not the greatest comparison, but it makes me think of when you’re grocery shopping or something, and someone needs to get through, so you move out of the way for them, and they just walk on by without even looking at you…And all you can think is, “jfc that was rude.”
In which Lana Parrilla is the cutest human being alive
once upon a time meme
ten characters [2/10]
↳ Cora Mills
“If the choice is love or power, then even having a heart is a liability.”
She puts up with a lot of crap, I’ve gotta say…I don’t understand how she remains so calm and together though. Honestly, she could so easily end up in a tabloid for knocking someone over the head, but she doesn’t…Oh, the self control. Bless her.